25 questions to ask your girlfriend
Good questions show that you are curious about her, not only about her day. Start with a light one and see where it goes.
- If you could eat only one dish forever, what would it be?
- When was the last time you truly rested?
- What are you usually thinking about when you go quiet?
- If you had a magic wand, what would you make disappear first?
- What's the one thing a relationship can't do without?
- Which dream did you give up on, and why?
- If you could teleport to one room at home, which would it be?
- Which memory do you always carry with you?
- Which role in your life wears you out the most?
- If you were a side character in a TV show, what would your lines be?
- Is there something you wish you'd done sooner?
- What haven't you been able to ask me until now?
- If you suddenly spoke a new language, what would you say, and to whom?
- When have I made you proudest?
- Which moment have you never shared with anyone?
- If you wrote a slogan for us, what would it be?
- Which time in your life would you not want back?
- Which feeling is hardest for you to show?
- What if we could only communicate by dancing for a week?
- If everything changed, what would you want to hold on to?
- What are you hoping I'll approve of?
- Would you stay silent for a whole year if someone paid you a million?
- Who do you feel you owe the most to?
- Was there ever a moment when trusting me felt hard?
- If we won an award together, what category would it be in?
How to use these
- One question is enough. Pick one and talk about the answer instead of reading the list.
- Both of you answer. It is not an interview, so answer the same question yourself.
- Try writing first. Writing before you share keeps you honest and stops one answer shaping the other.
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