20 getting to know you questions for couples

They start light, and most open onto a small story: childhood games, first impressions, habits nobody else knows about.

What was your favorite game as a kid, and which one would you pick if we played today?
What is the best advice you have ever been given?
Morning person or night owl? And at what time of day do you love me most?
When were you last proud of yourself?
If one song were to become our song, which should it be?
What does romantic mean to you?
What was the first thing we noticed about each other?
Is there something you would like us to learn together?
If you had a completely free weekend, what would you do?
What is your favorite scent, and what does it remind you of?
In which city do you feel most at home?
What is the most recent photo on your phone?
Which dish can no one make quite like you do?
Which movie or show could you happily watch again from the start?
What is the first thing you do in the morning, honestly?
If the day had three extra hours, what would you do with them?
What did you want to be when you were a kid?
When did you last try something new?
Which song instantly puts you in a good mood?
Name something you love without a hint of shame.

How to use these

One question is enough. Pick one and talk about the answer instead of reading the list.
Both of you answer. It is not an interview, so answer the same question yourself.
Try writing first. Writing before you share keeps you honest and stops one answer shaping the other.

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