15 long distance relationship questions
When you cannot share the small moments, you have to ask about them. These are for the calls where you have run out of things to say.
- What's the first thing you want to do when we see each other next?
- What comforts you most when we're apart?
- When do you feel the distance between us the most?
- Something from here today I wanted to share with you: …
- Which of our rituals keeps you going while we're apart?
- Has the distance given us anything?
- What reminded you of me most today?
- How can you tell when I miss you?
- What does trust mean to you when we're far apart?
- What's your favorite moment during our video calls?
- Is there something you meant to share with me but forgot?
- What should we do when we argue from a distance?
- Are you counting the days until we see each other?
- What do you think about right before you fall asleep?
- How do you picture the end of this distance?
How to use these
- One question is enough. Pick one and talk about the answer instead of reading the list.
- Both of you answer. It is not an interview, so answer the same question yourself.
- Try writing first. Writing before you share keeps you honest and stops one answer shaping the other.
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