25 questions to ask your boyfriend
"How was your day?" usually ends with "fine". These open something he can actually talk about, whether you have been together for months or years.
- What are you looking forward to most this week?
- Is there a small thought from today you have not shared with anyone?
- When did you last cry, if you don't mind me asking?
- What was the weather like today, and what did it make you want to do?
- If you could relive one moment from today, which would you pick?
- Which of my words has stayed with you?
- How many cups of tea or coffee have you had today?
- What's given you hope lately?
- Do you have a fear about us?
- Who did you talk to the most today?
- Which conversation in your life shaped you the most?
- What do you think we've never talked about?
- Did you finish something this week? What was it?
- Is there a side of yourself you've come to like more lately?
- Which mistake do you still keep reminding yourself of?
- Name one thing that went well for you today.
- What does courage look like to you?
- What do you do when someone doesn't treat you well?
- If you could ask for one thing right now, what would it be?
- Which belief have you carried with you since childhood?
- Is there a habit you'd rather not see in me?
- What did you forget when you left the house today?
- In your view, which small gesture shows love the most?
- Years from now, what do you hope remains of us?
- Who should make dinner tonight, and what should it be?
How to use these
- One question is enough. Pick one and talk about the answer instead of reading the list.
- Both of you answer. It is not an interview, so answer the same question yourself.
- Try writing first. Writing before you share keeps you honest and stops one answer shaping the other.
Keep the conversation going
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